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Sisterhood of West Suburban Breast Cancer Survivors: Share Your Story

In honor of Breast Cancer Awareness month, we asked west suburban women to share their breast-cancer experiences with us. We gathered their wisdom here. Share your story in the comments or upload a photo of an inspirational survivor in your life.

October is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. One of the greatest challenges for those who have been newly diagnosed is finding sources of support. Patients are eager for information on everything from enduring surgery and chemotherapy to how to deal with hair loss.

While there are many local resources and support groups available in DuPage County and Kane County, women can also find comfort in a sisterhood of survivors who have already been in their shoes.

Best selling author and breast cancer survivor Barbara Delinsky has gathered the wisdom of hundreds of breast cancer survivors who are eager to inspire those who are new to the “breast cancer sisterhood.” She shares all of the stories and tidbits she found in her book "Uplift: Secrets from the Sisterhood of Breast Cancer Survivors."

To tap into a similar vein of local wisdom, we asked women in DuPage and Kane counties to share their experiences with breast cancer.

Here's what they said helped them keep their heads up and get through their darkest days:

Kimberly Folkerts McBride: My husband, a sense of humor, my friends and family... — Elmhurst Patch Facebook

JoAnn Alvis Gust: Having family by my side every step of the way!!! — Wheaton Patch Facebook

Tina Koral: Something that helped me get through a year of breast cancer treatment was to envision the life I wanted after cancer. I wanted kids, I wanted my own business. I hoped it would just be a crappy period in a long life, and started making plans for when treatment was over. It gave me the motivation to get through the bad days. — Glen Ellyn Patch Facebook

Debbie Sieloff Mason: My very first Making Strides for Breast Cancer walk was in support of a friend of a friend and to honor a recenly diagnosed Aunt. I had no idea at the time of the walk that I too had breast cancer until three weeks later when I received my mammogram results. I was 41. What got me through: Staying upbeat about the fact that it could always be worse, blogging to keep the many people in life updated so I didn't have to repeat every detail which reduced stress and was also therapeutic, the many wonderful family members/friends/colleagues that checked in regularly whether it be an email, card or prepared meal. Few standouts: My Aunt kept me informed based on what she learned through her process and encouraged me to be a strong advocate of my own, my husband was by my side every step of the way, my brother provided much needed levity at just the right time. I'm walking in the DuPage Making Strides on 10/21 for the first time since I was diagnosed in 2009 and expect it to be an emotional celebration! — Naperville Patch Facebook

Tammy Churchill Pesenti: My best friend, Susan Reif, is a breast cancer survivor. As a writer, she wanted to put together what got her through and she wrote a book. Unfortunately, I've had to use the book as a tool all too often as several friends have been diagnosed since she released the book. For more information, you can go to the Facebook page. The book is well-written and a useful tool. — Elmhurst Patch Facebook

Terri Hein: I am a survivor of 14yrs! I had the mindset that I need to fight to stay alive. My family and my friends were and still are instrumental in staying strong. When times were dark and hard I would cry, talk, and journal. I went into counseling to learn coping skills. Cancer changes your life but it is up to the woman how it changes. I am now a counselor working with kids with substance use issues. If I hadn't had cancer I wouldn't be what I am now. Positive Mental Attitude! I wish all of you battling to stay as strong as you can. — Downers Grove Patch Facebook

TELL US: Do you have an experience with breast cancer that you would like to share? Honor the sisterhood of survivors in the western suburbs by uploading a photo to the gallery above or sharing your story in the comment section below.

Susan Hinz October 17, 2012 at 02:06 pm
Good luck to all those facing this disease, you will endure! I was diagnosed 8 years ago when I was 45yrs old. My faith, family and friends were my support, and they were awesome. My Doctors and the level of medical care I received made me feel very fortunate. There will be a day when it is not the first thing on your mind. I tried to stay as normal as possible, having 4 children in grammar school helped to take the focus off me! Exercise was very important to me so I kept working out and even sported different work out wigs. Your hair will grow back and mine came back darker with no grey!!Bonus! All is well.
Loretta Alonzo October 17, 2012 at 05:01 pm
I am a 8 year survivor. I can't emphasize enough for women to get their annual check ups. I one year, I am perfectly clear and the next year I have a large mass.
This disease changed my attitude about life--don't sweat the little stuff--and it's all little stuff. I truly believe attitude is 99% of the battle. I would say "I have cancer, cancer doesn't have me." To all the survivors and those still fighting--hurray for your bravery.
Cari Barcas (Editor) October 17, 2012 at 10:52 pm
Amazing stories. Thank you ladies for sharing so generously. Keep the great advice coming!
Deborah Donna October 18, 2012 at 04:59 pm
National Cancer Institute reports that DuPage County's breast cancer rate is "falling" and the cancer rate no longer exceeds the US and State cancer rate.
About 10 yrs ago, the breast cancer rate in DuPage County was about 20% higher than the State average. http://statecancerprofiles.cancer.gov/cgi-bin/ratetrendbycancer/rtcancer.pl?055&2&17&17&1&0&1 Susan G Komen Foundation reports that Cook and DuPage Co have the highest rate of breast cancer mortality in Illinois. So while the rate or occurances of breast cancer in DuPage Co seem to be falling, the breast cancer death rate remains highest in the State.

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Laurel June 17, 2013 at 07:20 pm
THEN SHOW US THAT BACK ROOM! And not just once. We all know about how the Department of AgricultureRead More classifies pets and the sub-standard housing and feeding requirements they have. Anyone who purportedly loves animals and rescues them would know this and aspire to rise above the bare minimum requirements an offer these companion animals some comfort. Yes, we have heard about your so- called adoption and the procedures for getting your so-called adoptable rescue dogs. Basically, just go to the so-called foster's house fill out some paperwork and get your dog that same day. Hmmmm... pretty shady indeed and anyone who uses the term "rescue" when they are keeping animals in these sub-standard conditions is the lowest of the low. No rescue on earth would work with you or should I say no legitimate rescue would work with you.....
cherylkkirk June 17, 2013 at 08:02 pm
Add "liar" to your list of "credentials," Tammy. And what's this court dateRead More about on Thursday morning?
Back room of the Puppy Parlor
Ida Mccarthy June 17, 2013 at 09:42 pm
Roseanne? The beauty shop next door had to close because of the smell coming from her business.Read More She sells dogs over the internet, not from her business in Lisle. This is a front for her and other people she has breeding dogs. And puhlease....there are drunks walking all over this little shop of horrors. Between the hot dog place and her business, they drink in the alley. Have you ever been there and witnessed this? Well I have. And yes, we will follow her wherever she goes. I do respect local business, but ya know what? The dogs in the back room are more important right now. They are suffering and have no voice. If these businesses are getting hurt, then they should speak up.
Ida Mccarthy June 17, 2013 at 09:47 pm
OH, and two weeks ago, she closed her store early when we protested on a Wednesday night. At 6:00Read More sharp, there were two seriously falling down drunks banging on her back door. Dogs barking, afraid in the back room. She was gone, so they went around to the front and started banging on the front door. I am surprised they made it there, they were holding on to each other to stand up. What is she doing in that store that drunk people bang on her door when she is closed? Just what is going on in this place?
Dianne Arp June 17, 2013 at 09:53 pm
Roseanne Lynch - it takes time to shut down businesses by protesting them. At our protestsRead More potential customers come to us and look at the information we provide; the facts about Puppy (Mill) Parlor. They get educated about the LIES PMP tells. And are disgusted by the pictures and Dept of Agriculture reports we show them. They are thankful that WE saved them from consumer fraud and from buying a sick and dying puppy mill puppy from Puppy Parlor and spending thousands of dollars in vet bills on that sick dog. The Village of Lisle has the power to stop this kind of fraud and animal abuse from happening too; to protect potential customers - yet they continue to allow this to continue in your town. The question you SHOULD be asking is - why are your Mayor and your trustees allowing a fraudulent business, that is also cruel to animals and abuses them, in your town? Puppy (Mill) Parlor is Lisle's black eye. And I think THAT alone does more damage to the downtown area than any group of protestors exercising their first amendment rights.
Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 05:57 pm
Tornado sirens in Joliet...22 miles from Lisle...
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Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 08:36 pm
Funnel cloud pics Naperville...posted at 8 pmRead More http://naperville.patch.com/groups/announcements/p/storm_1eb456ae
Darren McRoy (Editor) June 10, 2013 at 01:45 pm
Patch posts mugshots as part of reporting on police actions. We can never be paid to removeRead More mugshots, and thus are not an "extortion website." We can always update articles and report on future developments in the adjudication process.
Maureen June 10, 2013 at 11:49 pm
kindly directed at the editor~ Sorry Mr. Editor, you will get no Mia culpeas from me. I findRead More your practice of posting large head shots on this site appalling and yes it's definitely a form of cyber-bulling and possibly putting innocent people's identity at risk. Other neighboring suburbs post the local police reports without the need of a picture. Many local area Patch.com sites post the names , their offense and where he/she was apprehended. That is sufficient. But as I observed under the previous editor, not only did the Lisle Patch allow one to read the names, offenses and location as provided by the Lisle Police. The Patch website also included pictures, ages and addresses of those cited. Thats when the Patch crossed the line. I'm sure you're aware of internet catfishing. You know where one's picture can be lifted and reposted elsewhere without their knowledge or consent. While I am thankful that you do not ask for monies to remove headshots , how can you guarantee the citizens of Lisle will not become victims of these other parasite websites? Yes, these folks may have used poor judgement . But sometimes nice people do stupid things. Hopefully it's a one-time incident. As much as I believe in the First Amendment , I believe a responsible editor balances FOIA with a person right to privacy. Who wants their children , neighbors , minister or potential employer finding one's headshot on a website like this. Especially should the case be thrown out and/or the person is found innocent. If Springfield legislates this correctly I would hope that you could not post pictures and other identifying information unless the person is found guilty.
Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 03:12 pm
Yet, the State of Illinois proposed its own "Tollway Website of Shame"?! Those that votedRead More against the tollway website of shame cited that people could get named on the site even if someone else was running up fines with their car. And Illinois website would also be an "extortion-style" site where people have to pay to get their name removed from the website. http://www.dailyherald.com/article/20130604/news/706049727/
Speaking up for the dogs in the back room of Puppy Parlor
jd June 15, 2013 at 02:37 pm
Good for you guys! The Lisle Puppy mill is run by sick human beings, and there's a special placeRead More reserved in hell for them, on account of thier horrific abuse and neglect of animals. I will join you next Sat if you protest again!
Laurel June 4, 2013 at 07:00 pm
Wow...use your gray matter... if you have any! We display different signs all the time. Please giveRead More me your real name I'll make a special sign with your name on it.
Ida Mccarthy June 4, 2013 at 07:29 pm
Ummm....Beltane, so what is your point? Is that the interview with "The Most Lies EverRead More Told?" I responded to that "fake interview" and asked to see the OSHA regulation prohibiting people from seeing the back room. OSHA is waiting for me to get back to them. Please tell them I need this. Also, paying people 2.00 an hour is disgraceful. That's what the Labor Board told me. And I really could go on and on about the dumpster diving, the looking up prices after the dumpster dives and then marking the merchandise 50% off, drinking in the alley, etc.....So, please answer my questions, either here or on this "interview". Thank you.
Beltane June 5, 2013 at 06:58 am
Ida...I am only reading the things posted here and on the blog. I thought it would be nice forRead More people to be able to see this store side of things too. I like to know the OSHA regulation that is referred to in the blog as well. SO maybe you can answer that question for the both of us or will see it on the blog. I believe in shutting down puppy and kitten mills as much as you do but I do not believe in just reading one side of a debate or taking the opinion of someone I don't even know and making it my own. Puppy Parlor has all as far as I know Dpet of Agi reports and a letter from their vet up to back up what she is saying. What do you have to back up what you are saying? I'm not trying to be antagonistic here I'm trying to get as much back up proof from both sides as to what they are saying is all. As I reply on the other Announcement to Laurel...I read what I could find good and bad then visited the store Sunday. I don't think I have to come up yo talk to you while you are protesting because I have also been given a copy of the things you pass out to people by Tammy and it is all the same stuff I have been reading on the net anyway.