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Hey Mom and Dad: What Is Your New Year's Resolution For Your Family?

Parents, Patch wants to hear from you on the questions that get families talking.

Welcome to Hey Mom and Dad—a weekly feature in which we ask our Facebook fans to share their views on parenting. 

Every week, we get the conversation started by taking a look back at a question we asked parents the week before on Patch Facebook pages from around the western suburbs.

Each new year, people vow to make a fresh start for themselves or loved ones. With recent gun violence in the news, some parents have told us they plan to cut back on their kids' consumption of violent movies or video games. Others may want to eat more family dinners together or have their kids spend more time outside. This brings us to this week's question:

What New Year's resolution would you make for your family or kids this year?

Take a look at what Patch users throughout the western suburbs had to say and join the conversation in the comments section.

Doug Hafer: I will continue to teach my son to respect guns and continue to shoot with him. The problem is parenting, not guns. — Batavia Patch Facebook

Ross Gavino: Parents should look into martial arts training. Its a great way to keeps kids active and teaches kids respect and discipline! — Downers Grove Patch Facebook

Diane Morales: Live by the Golden Rule! — Geneva Patch Facebook

Cherie Jackson: More time together making meaningful memories. — Hinsdale-Clarendon Hills Patch Facebook

Vikki Bradley Stella: To be more organized! — Naperville Patch Facebook

Tracy Ryder: In my small family of three, I've always made family a priority since it wasn't an option when I was a kid. We were left to take care of ourselves often in front of a tv with video games (nothing violent at least). My husband works a lot of late hours so it's just me and my daughter. We play games together, cook, shop and do volunteer things. Nothing will change for us except appreciate each other more. — St. Charles Patch Facebook

Mike Sakowicz: I Will be playing a lot more Call of duty on Xbox 360 and teaching my Children about gun safety as well as how to handle a firearm... i will not being sugar coating or hiding anything from them like the media wants... — Wheaton Patch Facebook

Despiser of Obama January 1, 2013 at 03:19 pm
Teaching the children the evils of abortion , same sex marriage, homosexuality and the real meaning of religion and God.
Jim McMahon January 1, 2013 at 05:42 pm
I look forward to getting my new FOID card so I can take my son hunting for the first time. I will not dress up as the Easter Bunny or Santa Clause when around children.
Melissa January 2, 2013 at 03:55 pm
Ugh, I will teach my children not to be ignorant, and the only thing that is evil is ignorance (smh)
Melissa January 2, 2013 at 04:01 pm
I would like to work on better time management since I'm expecting number 2, and I want to get the family to church a little more often.

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Ashley June 18, 2013 at 11:27 pm
What about this report? Seems fishy...Read More http://www.humanesociety.org/assets/pdfs/pets/puppy_mills/report-hsus-chicago-pet-stores-2012investigates.pdf
Dianne Arp June 19, 2013 at 12:23 am
^See page 5 of the above Dept of Agriculture report published by the Humane Society of the U.S. andRead More posted by "Ashley." It clearly states Puppy (Mill) Parlor uses puppy mills to obtain their puppies: "Certificates of Veterinary Inspection reveal that Puppy Parlor buys from Conrad Kennel in Keota, Iowa which has been cited for violations of the federal Animal Welfare Act by the USDA, including dogs with matted coats and filth. Conrad Kennels had 226 breeding dogs and 27 puppies on site according to its October 22, 2012, USDA inspection report. The store also buys from Oleo Acres Kennel and J.A.K.’s Puppies, Inc., in Iowa – two large brokerage operations that collect puppies from mills and re-sell them. J.A.K. buys many puppies from Wanda Kretzman/Clearwater Kennels in Minnesota, who has egregious violations of the federal Animal Welfare Act reflected on her USDA inspection reports." This, my friends, describes puppy mills. NOT private, reputable breeders. When Tammy puts her dog/puppies in the x-pen, outside, in the grass, behind her store - the puppies spin around in circles, bark and screech, and turn on and attack one another. This is textbook puppy mill puppy behavior from dogs who've NEVER been out of their cages their entire lives. Proof they're puppy mill puppies. The above report also shows a picture of what the back room of the store looks like. Where they had over 100 dogs crammed in cages. They won't let ANY potential customers in the back room. Why? They'll lie and tell you it's an OSHA violation to have anyone but staff go back
Dianne Arp June 19, 2013 at 12:24 am
there. We checked with OSHA, there is no such violation. Lies, lies, lies. If they let you in theRead More back room you'd see the horrific, cruel conditions in which those dogs/puppies are housed. The puppies and dogs inside Puppy (Mill) Parlor are NOT rescued dogs. They do NOT hold "Adoption Events." They are NOT a rescue. They are NOT a 501c3 organization. If they were, Tammy Coglianese would have a Tax ID number issued by the IRS. She doesn't have one! They sell sick and dying puppy mill puppies to unsuspecting customers who believe they're being told the truth. They'll tell you anything you want to hear, lie right to your face, in order to get their hands on your credit card. And being "licensed by the Dept of Ag" means absolutely nothing. Puppy mills are also licensed by the DOA. And as if that's not enough, Puppy (Mill) Parlor was listed on the Horrible 100 Puppy Mills in the United States. They're the ONLY pet store in the entire U.S. listed in the report! Google it and see for yourself. Go to a shelter, or a rescue. There are even breed-specific rescues out there. If you're looking for a Schnauzer, Google: "Schnauzer rescue Illinois" and lists of Schnauzer-only rescues will pop up. If you buy a sick and dying puppy from Puppy (Mill) Parlor, you'll spend thousands in vet bills and most likely the dog will die anyway. We've heard from many, many people who've had exactly that happen. If you've purchased a dog from this hell hole, go to the Companion Animal Protection Society (CAPS) website at caps-web.org and complete a pet purchase complaint form.
Back room of the Puppy Parlor
Ida Mccarthy June 19, 2013 at 12:18 am
Oh my God, no words. Can you please provide me with the OSHA report?
Dianne Arp June 19, 2013 at 12:20 am
A legitimate business owner?! Seriously?! There are none so blind as those who will not see.Read More Tammy Coglianese lies about where her puppies come from. She abuses those dogs and puppies. She supports cruelty and abuse in the puppy mills she patronizes. If she CHOOSES to make a living off of the blood and backs of abused animals, off of lies, fraud and deception - then she also chooses the consequences of her actions. Period. End of story. You can play the martyr and victim all you want Roseanne. You can ignore the facts, and stick your head in the sand. Doesn't make your beliefs truths. Truth is truth, facts are facts, and lies are lies. Puppy (Mill) Parlor is not what I call a "legitimate business." But then again, I guess that's because I have a conscience. And a moral compass. And I don't live in Roseanneland. Btw, what exactly do you do for the West Suburban Food Bank, Roseanne??
Ida Mccarthy June 19, 2013 at 12:28 am
Is this you asking her the questions Roseanne? I need the report. Why do you not allow anyone inRead More the backroom of your store? TC: According to my insurance agent and OSHA regulations no one can go in the back room besides myself and my staff unless it is a government official. I am regulated by the Illinois Department of Agriculture and except for one violation
Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 05:57 pm
Tornado sirens in Joliet...22 miles from Lisle...
Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 07:05 pm
All Metra BNSF trains westbound delayed.
Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 08:36 pm
Funnel cloud pics Naperville...posted at 8 pmRead More http://naperville.patch.com/groups/announcements/p/storm_1eb456ae
Darren McRoy (Editor) June 10, 2013 at 01:45 pm
Patch posts mugshots as part of reporting on police actions. We can never be paid to removeRead More mugshots, and thus are not an "extortion website." We can always update articles and report on future developments in the adjudication process.
Maureen June 10, 2013 at 11:49 pm
kindly directed at the editor~ Sorry Mr. Editor, you will get no Mia culpeas from me. I findRead More your practice of posting large head shots on this site appalling and yes it's definitely a form of cyber-bulling and possibly putting innocent people's identity at risk. Other neighboring suburbs post the local police reports without the need of a picture. Many local area Patch.com sites post the names , their offense and where he/she was apprehended. That is sufficient. But as I observed under the previous editor, not only did the Lisle Patch allow one to read the names, offenses and location as provided by the Lisle Police. The Patch website also included pictures, ages and addresses of those cited. Thats when the Patch crossed the line. I'm sure you're aware of internet catfishing. You know where one's picture can be lifted and reposted elsewhere without their knowledge or consent. While I am thankful that you do not ask for monies to remove headshots , how can you guarantee the citizens of Lisle will not become victims of these other parasite websites? Yes, these folks may have used poor judgement . But sometimes nice people do stupid things. Hopefully it's a one-time incident. As much as I believe in the First Amendment , I believe a responsible editor balances FOIA with a person right to privacy. Who wants their children , neighbors , minister or potential employer finding one's headshot on a website like this. Especially should the case be thrown out and/or the person is found innocent. If Springfield legislates this correctly I would hope that you could not post pictures and other identifying information unless the person is found guilty.
Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 03:12 pm
Yet, the State of Illinois proposed its own "Tollway Website of Shame"?! Those that votedRead More against the tollway website of shame cited that people could get named on the site even if someone else was running up fines with their car. And Illinois website would also be an "extortion-style" site where people have to pay to get their name removed from the website. http://www.dailyherald.com/article/20130604/news/706049727/
Speaking up for the dogs in the back room of Puppy Parlor
jd June 15, 2013 at 02:37 pm
Good for you guys! The Lisle Puppy mill is run by sick human beings, and there's a special placeRead More reserved in hell for them, on account of thier horrific abuse and neglect of animals. I will join you next Sat if you protest again!