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Hey Mom and Dad: What Holiday Gift Did You Refuse to Buy Your Child?

Parents, Patch wants to hear from you on the questions that get families talking.

Welcome to Hey Mom and Dad—a weekly feature in which we ask our Facebook fans to share their views on parenting. 

Every week, we get the conversation started by taking a look back at a question we asked parents the week before on Patch Facebook pages from around the western suburbs.

What's one holiday gift your kids asked for that you refused to get them, and why?

Take a look at what Patch users throughout the western suburbs had to say and join the conversation in the comments section.

Elizabeth Carini Salamon: Wii/DS. Kids spend way too much time with electronics. — Batavia Patch Facebook

Brenda Garcia: A Karaoke machine! Although someone else got it for them and I didn't know so I guess all I can do is add to my list some good ear plugs. Why? Three kids fighting to take a turn and "sing" very " beautiful" songs.... Not that I don't love their beautiful voices but we already sit to see them perform "dance" recitals for hours. Now we are going to have to add to that, "rock star shows". Lol. — Burr Ridge Patch Facebook

Lisa Stach: A car. She just got her license in May. She's got YEARS before she has any good reason to own a car. — Downers Grove Patch Facebook

Blair Malloy: My 2 older kids (ages 5 and almost 3) want Power wheels. I equate them to really expensive bumper cars at this point. — Elmhurst Patch Facebook

Kristen Norris Zimny: A trampoline for my 8 yr old-too much of a liability/dangerous. And a Mac book for my 11 year old- too young! — Geneva Patch Facebook

Stacy Gemelli: Barbie dream house, been on daughter's wish list the past 2 yrs. ( Santa thinks it's too much money, close to $150) at age 7, I'm she she'd rather get a bunch of gifts to un-wrap than only 1! — Glen Ellyn Patch Facebook

Summer Stevens Heil: A TV. I don't think parents should encourage children to hide in their bedrooms and veg out in front of Spongebob. If we are going to veg out in front of Spongebob, we will do it as a family! — Hinsdale-Clarendon Hills Patch Facebook

Cindy McDowell Abrahamson: A Mac and an iPhone. A big "No!" mostly because his big brother would have a fit. (Took him years to get his.) — La Grange Patch Facebook

Kerin Thomas Smith: A horse. — Naperville Patch Facebook

Ann Lythcke Moehling: My 6 yr old asked for a inground pool with a waterside. Not happening!! — St. Charles Patch Facebook

Teri Garrett Vanderlaan: BB gun. Self explanatory — Western Springs Patch Facebook

Laura McGowan: Call of Duty Black Ops II -- "but mom, everyone has it." Forget it. Not a chance that I'm giving a 13-year-old a game that has no redeeming qualities. — Wheaton Patch Facebook

So what's your take? Tell us in the comments.

Sarah Kerr Severson December 25, 2012 at 01:10 pm
$250 Beatz headphones for my 6, 8 and 10 year olds.
Despiser of Obama December 25, 2012 at 01:41 pm
Any game or toy involving violence and shooting.
Despiser of Obama December 26, 2012 at 01:48 pm
Anything about Obama.

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Laurel June 17, 2013 at 07:20 pm
THEN SHOW US THAT BACK ROOM! And not just once. We all know about how the Department of AgricultureRead More classifies pets and the sub-standard housing and feeding requirements they have. Anyone who purportedly loves animals and rescues them would know this and aspire to rise above the bare minimum requirements an offer these companion animals some comfort. Yes, we have heard about your so- called adoption and the procedures for getting your so-called adoptable rescue dogs. Basically, just go to the so-called foster's house fill out some paperwork and get your dog that same day. Hmmmm... pretty shady indeed and anyone who uses the term "rescue" when they are keeping animals in these sub-standard conditions is the lowest of the low. No rescue on earth would work with you or should I say no legitimate rescue would work with you.....
cherylkkirk June 17, 2013 at 08:02 pm
Add "liar" to your list of "credentials," Tammy. And what's this court dateRead More about on Thursday morning?
Back room of the Puppy Parlor
Ida Mccarthy June 17, 2013 at 09:47 pm
OH, and two weeks ago, she closed her store early when we protested on a Wednesday night. At 6:00Read More sharp, there were two seriously falling down drunks banging on her back door. Dogs barking, afraid in the back room. She was gone, so they went around to the front and started banging on the front door. I am surprised they made it there, they were holding on to each other to stand up. What is she doing in that store that drunk people bang on her door when she is closed? Just what is going on in this place?
Dianne Arp June 17, 2013 at 09:53 pm
Roseanne Lynch - it takes time to shut down businesses by protesting them. At our protestsRead More potential customers come to us and look at the information we provide; the facts about Puppy (Mill) Parlor. They get educated about the LIES PMP tells. And are disgusted by the pictures and Dept of Agriculture reports we show them. They are thankful that WE saved them from consumer fraud and from buying a sick and dying puppy mill puppy from Puppy Parlor and spending thousands of dollars in vet bills on that sick dog. The Village of Lisle has the power to stop this kind of fraud and animal abuse from happening too; to protect potential customers - yet they continue to allow this to continue in your town. The question you SHOULD be asking is - why are your Mayor and your trustees allowing a fraudulent business, that is also cruel to animals and abuses them, in your town? Puppy (Mill) Parlor is Lisle's black eye. And I think THAT alone does more damage to the downtown area than any group of protestors exercising their first amendment rights.
Roseanne Lynch June 18, 2013 at 12:22 pm
I have watched this protest unfold and watched these postings intently. This is a seriouslyRead More degenerating strip mall. The restaurant on the end has been empty for most of the past 4 years, the gas station is closed and fenced. It has nothing to do with Puppy Parlor or your protests. I have wondered how much of your protest is issue-based and how much is personal and from the postings in response to mine I can see that it is just personal. Being a Lisle business owner myself and being a curious and intelligent person I have checked the facts on this place of business and even though you all consistently call for complaints to be made there are none at this time. The owner has cooperated with the Illinois Department of Agriculture and there have been no citations. There are many people with happy, healthy dogs from Puppy Parlor, many more than have been sold "sick and dying" dogs. Unfortunately that happens but it would not be better if these dogs were taken to a shelter. I would truthfully be appalled if the Mayor were to stop a legitimate business from operating just because a few people don't like the owner of the business. Believe me, I do not like the owner either. I went there 4 years ago to purchase a Maltese puppy and I thought she was actually overbearing in her protection of the puppies. I purchased a dog elsewhere and that was my choice but I do respect the right of a business owner to operate a legitimate business and I do respect the other business owners and the Landlord of the property also. As far as your group getting grants to help put this woman out of business...seriously, what about a grant (or donation to West Suburban Food Bank) for the 100 or children who go to bed hungry every night in the Lisle-Woodridge area?
Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 05:57 pm
Tornado sirens in Joliet...22 miles from Lisle...
Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 07:05 pm
All Metra BNSF trains westbound delayed.
Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 08:36 pm
Funnel cloud pics Naperville...posted at 8 pmRead More http://naperville.patch.com/groups/announcements/p/storm_1eb456ae
Darren McRoy (Editor) June 10, 2013 at 01:45 pm
Patch posts mugshots as part of reporting on police actions. We can never be paid to removeRead More mugshots, and thus are not an "extortion website." We can always update articles and report on future developments in the adjudication process.
Maureen June 10, 2013 at 11:49 pm
kindly directed at the editor~ Sorry Mr. Editor, you will get no Mia culpeas from me. I findRead More your practice of posting large head shots on this site appalling and yes it's definitely a form of cyber-bulling and possibly putting innocent people's identity at risk. Other neighboring suburbs post the local police reports without the need of a picture. Many local area Patch.com sites post the names , their offense and where he/she was apprehended. That is sufficient. But as I observed under the previous editor, not only did the Lisle Patch allow one to read the names, offenses and location as provided by the Lisle Police. The Patch website also included pictures, ages and addresses of those cited. Thats when the Patch crossed the line. I'm sure you're aware of internet catfishing. You know where one's picture can be lifted and reposted elsewhere without their knowledge or consent. While I am thankful that you do not ask for monies to remove headshots , how can you guarantee the citizens of Lisle will not become victims of these other parasite websites? Yes, these folks may have used poor judgement . But sometimes nice people do stupid things. Hopefully it's a one-time incident. As much as I believe in the First Amendment , I believe a responsible editor balances FOIA with a person right to privacy. Who wants their children , neighbors , minister or potential employer finding one's headshot on a website like this. Especially should the case be thrown out and/or the person is found innocent. If Springfield legislates this correctly I would hope that you could not post pictures and other identifying information unless the person is found guilty.
Lisle WatchDog June 12, 2013 at 03:12 pm
Yet, the State of Illinois proposed its own "Tollway Website of Shame"?! Those that votedRead More against the tollway website of shame cited that people could get named on the site even if someone else was running up fines with their car. And Illinois website would also be an "extortion-style" site where people have to pay to get their name removed from the website. http://www.dailyherald.com/article/20130604/news/706049727/
Speaking up for the dogs in the back room of Puppy Parlor
jd June 15, 2013 at 02:37 pm
Good for you guys! The Lisle Puppy mill is run by sick human beings, and there's a special placeRead More reserved in hell for them, on account of thier horrific abuse and neglect of animals. I will join you next Sat if you protest again!